Every bride needs to be able to differentiate between her dreams and reality. It is very important to have a firm grip on reality and not live in the clouds. She needs to know that what her mind’s eye visualizes and what her real eyes see are two entirely different things. She might have an image of a pinkish, peachish dress but what she sees is a pinkish, coralish dress. It may not work in the wedding of her imagination but it has to in the wedding of her reality. So she has to learn to make do and not be a fusspot about it because, let’s be serious, nobody likes a fusspot.