The first thing you need to know while planning your wedding is that the wedding is not about you. When a friend told me this few months back I laughed it off. Now, I’m experiencing it. There are a hundred and one things to be taken care of, and a million and one people to please. What you really want is out of the question. I know it sounds drastically unromantic. But it is what it is. The sooner you get your head around it the lesser is the heartbreak.